Tuesday, October 16, 2012

2 Years Home

Our precious girl has now been home for 2 years.
 
She is doing wonderful.
 
A few things about our Gracie Girl.
 
1.  She is a girly girl.
 
2.  She loves the color pink.
 
3.  She loves to pick how she wants her hair done like pony tails or braids. 
 
4.  She loves noodles.
 
5.  She loves anything sweet.  Candy, ice cream, etc.
 
6.  She loves her stuffed elephant named, Juice.
 
7.  She loves anything princess.
 
8.  She has a best friend named Isabella.
 
9.  She does NOT like taking naps, but still needs one.
 
10.  She is happiest when everyone, Mommy, Daddy, and her big brothers are
 
home under one roof.   

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Readoption

We are done.  Absolutely, completely, 100% done with Gracie's adoption.

Yesterday we had our day in court and officially readopted Gracie.  It was an optional last step that we had been putting off pretty much since we came home from China.  At first I was under the impression that this step would be costly.  Boy was I wrong.  It only cost $20.  We were able to easily do it without a lawyer.  All we did was fill out some forms and request a court date.  Ok, so we used a lawyer (Jon's brother) to help us fill out the simple request for a court date because we didn't understand the terminology.

Yesterday was our day.  Our court time was 1:45 pm.  I wasn't too thrilled with that time slot because that is Miss Gracie's nap time, but what else can you do.  We arrived early and found many other adoptive families waiting outside the court room.  A list was posted on the courtroom door with your case number and the order they would go in.  We were lucky enough to be #1.  We still had to wait over an hour before we were called into the courtroom. During that time they asked one of us, Jon, to come into the courtroom and check the spelling on our birth certificate paper and sign a few forms.

Jon and I, along with Gracie, Joshua, Jayden and my mom were called into the courtroom.  The judge was standing behind a table.  Jon and I were then sworn in and we promised to treat Gracie as own child with all the rights, etc.  We then simply signed a the birth certificate request and we were done.  Didn't take more than 5 minutes.  We were cheered by the other adoptive families when we came out of the courtroom.  I wasn't expecting that.  Now waiting to actually get the birth certificate will take a while.  We were told it could take up to a year.  So now we've come full circle waiting for a birth certificate again.  If you remember back when I first began this blog I wrote about waiting to receive my birth certificate which had to come from the Vital Records Office in Sacramento (since I was adopted I couldn't go to the county where I was born, I had to go through the state).  I was told it could take up to 18 weeks to get my birth certificate, but after many phone calls and tears I was able to get it in just 4 weeks.  So here we are once again waiting, but this will be an easy, yet long, wait.  We have our precious daughter who is completely and legally ours.  If  needed we have court documents that can be used to obtain a passport or enroll her in school.  We could also use her adoption papers from China which is just a pain because I have to make copies of the Chinese version and the translated version, etc, etc, etc.  Once we get the state issued birth certificate I will only need one paper, her birth certificate with our names on it.  Her MOMMY and DADDY and that's the way we like it.

I'll leave you with a few pictures of READOPTION day.


 Our family with the judge.  Gracie refused to look at the camera.

Happy girl!



Sunday, October 9, 2011

One year with her forever family

One year ago today a very scared little girl was placed in our arms. She screamed and cried. She desperately tried to wiggle out of my arms and get away. She clung to a little dolly and a Speed Racer Car. She wanted absolutely nothing to do with us especially her Daddy. She was so tiny and innocent and didn't understand what was going on. We looked different and sounded different.



1 year ago today 10-10-10




Fast forward 1 year later. She is happy and well adjusted and doing awesome. She loves her Mommy, Daddy, Jaw-Josh (Joshua), Jayden, Ga-Gam (grandma). She calls herself Gray-Grace we call her Gracie. She is a daddy's girl and cries when he leaves. She wants to be with us and we want to be with her. Can it already be a year? Has it only been a year? It went so quickly, but it feels like we've had her, her entire life. She has blessed our lives more than we could have ever imagined. God meant for this precious little girl to be ours. For us to love and care for and call our daughter. She has a zest for life and brings a smile to everyone she meets. We love you Grace Noelle Zi Yue !




Today 10-10-11

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Shriner's Hospital

We took a trip to Shriner's Hospital Los Angeles yesterday. It's something we've been putting off because we just didn't want to subject Gracie to all the examinations that would take place.

We were told that the appointment would take 3 - 4 hours (thankfully it only took 2) and we would meet with the entire team in the CAPP unit. We were told that CAPP stands for Child Amputee Prosthetics Project.

Since the appointment was at 1:00 Jon took off work to go with me and Grandma came up so she could pick the boys up from school and possibly take Joshua to soccer practice if need be.

After checking in we had Gracie's vitals taken: height, weight, temp and blood pressure.

We met first with Dr. Setoguchi. He's actually the one who greated us when we walked in. Another younger doctor (can't remember her name) sat in on the meeting. The Dr. told us all the different options we have regarding treatment of Gracie's missing left hand.
1. Do nothing.

2. Hand transplant. Only done a few times and never on a child. This is something we would never even consider.

3. Surgery. There is a surgery where the two bones in the fore arm are surgically separated and given muscle tissue so that the arm would almost have a pincher. Also something we would never even consider.

4. The last option is a prosthetic. The prosthestic would have a pincher grip on the end that would open and close when she moved her opposite shoulder.

Next we met with the Social Worker. She was there to give us advice on how to deal with things that will come up as Gracie gets older and maybe gets teased for being different. She is there for the emotional support for the family and we can call anytime if we need adivce.

Next we had x-rays done. They did both her right and left arm. Gracie did great having the x-ray done. She just sat there and held her arm still. She was such a good girl.

After the x-ray we met with the Occupational Therapist. She questioned us on Graice's abilities and showed us the different prosthetics. One was purely cosmentic and was just there for looks. Then there was the one with the pincher grip that is activated using the opposite shoulder. This one could also be fit with a pincher that looked like a hand. Last there was a battery powered one that you would have to get outside of Shriner's because they don't make them there.

In the room with us was a man (I'm not sure what his job was) who was actually born with a short arm and uses a prosthetic that he actually tweeked for his own use.

After meeting with the entire team we met with everyone at once and we viewed her x-rays. Her right arm is completely normal. The left was just as they thought and didn't have any surprises. There are just the fore arm bones and no finger bones. Her left arm is smaller and may or may not grow as her other arm does. The Dr. could see no growth spots in her left arm but could in her right (good arm). This is nothing to worry about. We were asked if we had any more questions. We couldn't think of any. I can never do that under pressure. We will go back in 2 months and decide what we want to do. We were reassured that there is no right or wrong answer. It's just what we decided is best for our daughter.

So there you have it. Right now our decision is to do nothing. She does so well with her arm just the way it is. We were told by the Social Worker (forgot to ask the Dr.) that we would be able to get a specialized prosthetic for her arm for swimming or to hold a pick if she wanted to play the guitar, etc. We have some thinking and praying to do but this is the way we are leaning right now.

Saturday, August 20, 2011

Ice Cream


This summer we took a trip to Sacramento. Jon had to go for work, so since it was summer and we had nothing better to do we tagged along.

Back when we first got married 18 years ago we lived in Sacramento for 3 years. We knew that the first place we wanted to go when we got there was our favorite ice cream shop Leatherby's. We love it so much we went there twice during our visit. Hey when you go to an ice cream shop only once every 9 years I feel you're entitled to go more than once when you don't know when you'll be back.









Now that's how you make a hot fudge sundae!




Finished it with a little help from Joshua and Gracie




A Black and White Sundae




Miss Gracie enjoying some sherbet




Jayden enjoying some sherbet too.





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Saturday, July 9, 2011

Annual pictures with the cousins











Miss Gracie insisted on sticking her tounge out for the first few pictures.


My 3 kids



Gracie, Anna and Iris



Joshua, Jayden, Gracie, Anna and Iris











Tuesday, July 5, 2011

More 4h of July Pictures at the Great Park


My American Girl on her first 4th of July




















A Ride on the Big Orange Balloon